Wholeness is the experience of being sound in mind, body, and spirit; utilizing your whole potential to create the life you want and to live in authenticity, to be complete.
Why then do we say we are looking for our other half? Does that make sense? Do you want half a person who needs you to be complete? Do you want to bring your incomplete self to another?
That neediness creates desperation, insecurity, fear, and loneliness; attracting another who is desperate, insecure, fearful, and lonely.
Complete (whole) people attract complete (whole) people. That is the goal.